Question: What do I do now after all this?

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Answer #1:

We should both get divorced and then get married!!, I would greatly enjoy experimenting all that you might want

Answer #2:

I don't see how he could forgive all that.

Answer #3:

you threw the first rock
mail me this question, there are many questions I need to ask you

Answer #4:

Definitely go see someone about this. It could be a hidden problem, or insecurity because of your childhood/background. Things are only going to get worse if you don't address them. Also, being in a relationship like this is not good. I realize you both love each other, but it isn't real if you are constantly cheating on one another. The trust is completely gone, and it may take years to build it back up but before you do that you must address the issue right now, which is why are you cheating or why is he cheating emotionally. Work on yourself first, then work on each other's relationship. Tell him this, try to make him understand that you want to make this work, but you need to work on yourself first and can he please be there for you. You need to WANT to do this though, don't just do it because you don't want to lose him, do it for yourself so that you can have a healthy marriage with the man you love.

Answer #5:

When you are single, you can sleep with whomever you please.


Right now, you are an irresponsible, immature, cheating failure of a wife, and he's not any better.

Answer #6:

It does not sound like you are ready to be in a serious committed relationship. You have to stop and ask yourself if you really "love" him or love the idea of loving him. Loving someone does not mean that you repeatedly cheat, nor does it mean you retaliate to hurt your loved one by cheating one them again. The first time may have been excusable but the following times were nothing but selfishness. You need to move on and let both of you time to heal. You'll know when you're ready to be serious with someone and the act of cheating will never cross your mind. Until then, stay single and stop playing with people's feelings; you're own included! Good luck!

Answer #7:

I was raised in an extremely strict, religious household too but I never cheated on my husband and used my upbringing as an excuse! Sorry, but there are no excuses and there is no justification for cheating.
You cheat on him...........he cheats on you to get even.........you cheat on him again. Crikey girl!! I'm sure you didn't learn this behaviour in church!
Obviously, neither of you are committed to your marriage. Forgiveness isn't going to make this go away, it's not going to make what either of you did ok and it's not going to restore the relationship. You can try counselling but the damage has been done and your relationship will NEVER be what it once was.
It sounds like you were a mismatch from the beginning so why drag out this marriage and make both of you miserable? It's very sad that people don't think about the consequences of their actions before they do things!

Answer #8:

see if he'd be interested in a little business proposition and make some cash. Sounds like you have some good experience for all that.

Answer #9:

Are you sure you want to be with him? It sounds like neither of you are all that into this marriage.

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